I will be adding to this as time goes on. If you have any suggestions or would like to add your site/book to the list add a comment, and I will check it out.
http://www.transgendercare.com An excellent resource for both those transitioning and those who are supporting those going through it. This site has information as well as resources, such as a log to record the progress hormonal feminization.
http://www.tsroadmap.com This is an excellent starting point that breaks down the overwhelming information when starting out. Most of the information is on MTF but not all.
http://lena.kiev.ua/voice/ This link deals with feminizing your voice and requires a lot of training. Still working on it.
http://www.darenc.com/departments/clerk-of-court/special-proceedings/legal-name-changes This is the link to Dare County Courts. The page is for name changes.
http://nc.legal-aid.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/NameChangeAdult.pdf This is a packet of info for Adult Name Changes from a Legal Aid resource.